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The idea of the “grass being greener on the other side” is a fallacy.
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Remember in your vows when you said “for better or worse”? This is a painful example of the worst part!ģ) See your husband as being on the threshold of utter failure, because if he leaves you, he will suffer more than you can imagine. Also, this is how you begin to experience your own power and the depth of your love. Compassion will take the sting out of the “insult” of his behavior, and it will be nothing in comparison to your experience of feeling tolerance, sensitivity, and benevolence. Arming yourself with solid information and tools is the direct path toward a happy marriage.Ģ) Dive deep into your heart, over and over, to pull up the love and compassion you need in order to accept your husband’s shortcomings. You can accomplish this by either reading Breaking The Cycle or watching our online videos.
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Make a commitment to educate yourself on the purpose of marriage and how to create the best marriage possible. However, if you implement the points below, the effort alone will set the stage for your future.ġ) Study marriage as if it is the most important subject in the world. What should you do? My advice is easier said than done. Having said that, we can wholeheartedly offer reassurance that your way of thinking is good your prayers are beneficial your desire for the future is crucial and, finally, your assessment of “weakness” or lack of strength, rather than another woman, is the current problem. Of course any “advice” given would be incredibly limited because, as you said perfectly, nobody can determine where your life is going to lead. Instead, you need to be levelheaded so your efforts are practical. The key is to not be controlled by that fear. You see, the mind is driven to protect your safety and will misuse imagination to boost any threat, like your husband leaving you and your child.
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There is no doubt your intuition is correct to some degree. On the one hand you are hanging onto the dream of a happy family, on the other you are feeling humiliated by the unfortunate predicament you find yourself in.
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The trials you are going through are very difficult, and they would be for anyone. This is weighing on me because I do want to be happy and I didn’t marry for it to end in divorce and be raising a child by myself. When I say that I am done with him and I’m not going to call him, talk to him, or text him…he ends up calling or texting me. He wants us to be friends but how do you be friends with someone you love? Daily I ask God to guide me in the path that I should take. Sometimes I feel neither one of us wants to completely let go. I would appreciate if you could please give me some advice. I really feel God has answered my prayers and it is to have patience and let him handle this not me. He just says if it happens, then it happens, he’s not worried about that.Īm I being stupid for wanting my marriage to work with all of this going on? I am so confused. If he doesn’t love me or doesn’t want anything to do with me, why does he continue to come around? Why does he continue to hide his other relationship? I have asked him about divorce. What should I do? I want to forgive him and start all over, to at least see if it will work. I know that if I give up, I let the devil get the best of me. I do pray and ask God to repair my marriage and family. I don’t listen to other people because they cannot determine where my life is going to lead. I know there is someone else in the picture (which he will not admit) but I never would have thought our marriage was in that type of danger, and he never said a thing. He eats at my home and he invites me to eat at his. I love him dearly and want to work on trying to make our marriage work, but so far it is to no avail. My husband and I have been separated for 18 months.